Well, Thanksgiving is done and we’ve survived Black Friday but we’re not through the holiday abyss yet. This means we’ll most likely be dreading the stress, craziness, and visions of perfection shoved down our throats. For many of us, the holidays can feel dark, lonely, and stressful—especially if we are going through or recovering from divorce. Instead of looking forward … [Read more...]
What’s The Emotional Value Of Your Wedding Diamond?
When purchasing a wedding diamond, jewelers use a particular method for determining the value of the stone. Cut, color, carat and clarity are known as the 4C’s and are useful in examining a diamond’s characteristics and worth. If you’re in possession of a diamond engagement ring, you may view the stone differently than its physical properties alone. That piece of jewelry … [Read more...]
How to Trust Again When You’re Devastated
Nobody likes being betrayed and losing trust. And when that betrayal comes from a spouse, which may be one of the reasons for your divorce, the results can make you feel terrible. It’s a crappy weight to have on your shoulders. Similar to its other invasive cousins, anger, guilt, and resentment, losing trust keeps you from getting your life back. But like all the other … [Read more...]
Wisdom From Divorce: Divorce May Be Part Of Your Spiritual Journey
Religious beliefs are often a barrier to even considering divorce as an option when divorce may actually be part of your spiritual journey: The fact that I chose divorce doesn't mean I didn't pray about it. It doesn't mean I made the decisions without talking to God. The fact that it messes up the order in the church doesn't mean this isn't part of your spiritual journey. … [Read more...]
Wisdom From Divorce: Does Life Get Easier When Your Ex Is Dating?
Learning that your ex is dating can bring a flood of emotions and for some, life gets easier: He actually started dating someone who was another parent at our school and our children are friends. A lot of people want that to be a big drama but I noticed a change in his behavior towards me instantly. I didn't want him back so all I could do was just say, "I'm really happy for … [Read more...]