I was recently invited to collaborate on an expert panel and share some insights on how to deal with the stress of life and divorce on hold and self-quarantine with someone you no longer wish to be married to. Here are my best tips. My best advice or perhaps wish, is to treat each other with kindness and respect, even if that has been absent from the relationship for a … [Read more...]
Alimony: Here’s What You Can Expect
California and some other states offer legal separation and dissolution of marriage. For either, one person must file a petition in the court. If you have children and/or you need spousal support, you may apply to the court for temporary support only if you filed for divorce, legal separation, annulment of your marriage or if you have a protective order against your spouse. … [Read more...]
What’s Scary About Selling Your Wedding Rings?
The leaves are changing, the air is crisp, and #spookyseason is trending on social media. It’s the time of year to face your fears. Have you ever noticed a pang in your stomach when you’re getting rid of anything related to your wedding memories? Let’s clear out the cobwebs and figure out why you’re feeling stuck. What’s so frightening about selling your wedding … [Read more...]
Can The Passion In A Sexless Marriage Be Rekindled?
If you’ve been Googling ‘sexless marriage’ or 'sex-starved marriage' then you may also be wondering if you can rekindle the passion in your marriage. Most people who now have little to no physical intimacy with their spouse will tell you that it’s not how the relationship started. But somehow, at some point, the passion started to fade. The sex became tense, distant, … [Read more...]
If You’re In A Sexless Marriage, Should You Divorce?
Does a sexless marriage mean you're destined for divorce? Well, maybe. Maybe not. For sure, judging by the number of books and articles and the search requests for my blog, it's a common issue. My clients and free consults, frequently remark that they're living more like roommates than lovers. What exactly is a sexless marriage? What do you do if you and your spouse … [Read more...]