Interestingly, the topic of using a private detective during divorce hasn't come up much during my interviews, perhaps that's not surprising since I try to focus on life after divorce and not life during divorce. Nevertheless, I suspect that quite a number of my readers are people who are considering divorce or may be in the midst of the legal process and may even be wondering … [Read more...]
Rethinking What Marriage Means
My current guest, Carolyn says she's lucky to have an ex like hers especially since he wasn't a good husband. One of her earliest comments on my blog was to share how she knew her marriage was over when her husband deleted some photos of a digital camera. That might seem like a small, innocent mistake but that single, momentary action conveyed so much about how her husband saw … [Read more...]
Divorce Is A Change Not An End
One of my universal truths about divorce is that your perspective on divorce will change once you experience it. Os I wasn't surprised when my current guest, Molly said her perspective of divorce had changed in a million ways. Here's Molly: I don’t see divorce as a failure anymore. In fact, I think that sometimes it’s a hard decision. Sometimes it’s a braver decision than … [Read more...]
Peace And Divorce Can Go Together
My current guest, Molly writes the blog, Postcards from a Peaceful Divorce. Aside from being a beautiful, calming title, I had all manner of questions about it because one of my universal truths is that all divorces are painful. Is there such thing as a peaceful divorce? Was it something Molly and her ex committed to as a goal? Is it something that comes from fighting against … [Read more...]
When Divorce Is Not An Option
Wedding vows are a central part of most wedding ceremonies. Perhaps more than the legalities, it is these vows and our beliefs in marriage that make ending a marriage so hard. They're what make us believe that divorce is not an option. Today I'd like to introduce you to Molly who writes the blog, Postcards from a Peaceful Divorce. Don't be fooled by the blog title. Molly … [Read more...]