There isn't much in life that helps prepare us for the end of a marriage. Even if you experienced divorce as a child, your own divorce is different. The heartache is a given but what should you expect when you divorce? Bargaining With Yourself You will be so afraid of the Unknown that you will reason with yourself that even though you are miserable, you at least are … [Read more...]
Do You Know What You Need To Know About Suicide and Divorce?
We don't talk much publicly about suicide and divorce but it is a topic that I've discussed with a number of clients. Whether it's a child whose parents are getting divorced, the person who wants to end the marriage but can't or the person whose spouse has said they want a divorce, it's a sign of a person who is struggling for their life and desperately needs help. So before … [Read more...]
On The Brink Of Divorce Insanity? Here’s How To Escape
At some point during the divorce and separation process, you may feel like you’ve done everything you were supposed to: you found a decent lawyer, a good support system, your kids seem to be doing okay, and your finances are under control. Yet, you still feel on the brink of divorce insanity. So, why are you still feeling awful? You know that awful drama chaotic feeling … [Read more...]
Why Is Going Public With Your Divorce So Hard?
January is often referred to as divorce month because attorneys frequently see a spike in filings at this time. And once you've filed it's hard to keep the truth about your marriage a secret any longer. You're going to have to start opening up to what's going on. So what makes going public with your divorce SO hard? Well, chances are you've never had to do this before so … [Read more...]
The Most Amazing Divorce Advice … From My Lawyer
As soon as you mention divorce to friends and family members, they will offer you advice. Often this isn't the most amazing divorce advice but rather tips based on a stranger's nightmare divorce that bares little similarity to your situation or doesn't reflect recent changes in the law or social practice. The key with advice is hearing what's being said, assessing the giver's … [Read more...]