What often keeps us in troubled marriages is fear and doubt, not knowing that we manage the logistics of living alone, not knowing if we could manage financially, fear of simply being alone or lonely and of course, fear of judgment. For IronSpineSally, her husband's deployments gave her the opportunity to take more responsibility for the household and made her realize she was … [Read more...]
Addicted To Pornography
In the opening post in IronSpineSally's story she spoke about the sexual problems in her four-year marriage and how her husband made her feel that the reason they couldn't get pregnant was something to do with her. She also mentioned his addiction to pornography and that too was her fault. Here's IronSpineSally: He was part-time in the Air Force, so he would go for a few … [Read more...]
Confronting His Sexual Problems
I'm starting a new series today and would like to introduce you to IronSpineSally. Hers is a multifaceted story of a troubled marriage, addiction, infidelity, strength and love. What I love most about her story though, is how IronSpineSally blossoms through the pain and hurt along the way. I guess I forgot to ask her how old she is but I'm guessing she's in a her late … [Read more...]
Gaining Your Freedom But Losing Your Children
After discovering her husband was a crossdresser, Andrea knew she needed to get away, she needed time to think. So she left with her two children and went back to her home town. There she made the decision not to return to her husband. Five months later, Andrea was in court arguing for child custody. She lost the first round but three months later, following a custody … [Read more...]
The Courage To Leave Your Marriage
When Andrea hired a private investigator to follow her husband she didn't think she'd find out anything new: the women's underwear was evidence enough that he was cheating. So when the PI told her she was married to a crossdresser, she didn't believe him yet it soon became clear to her that it was time for her to leave the marriage. Here's Andrea: The private detective had … [Read more...]