Many of the documents filed as part of the legal divorce process are available to the public and that can be a concern on many levels. One option then is to use the Collaborative Divorce process because a Collaborative Divorce ensures your privacy. Wendi and her husband were married for about 22 years. Wendi says they got married for the wrong reasons and it was a difficult … [Read more...]
Starting Divorce With A Note
Telling your spouse you want a divorce is a hard conversation but sometimes, having a conversation doesn't happen. Sometimes, people choose to start divorce with a note. Wendi was married for about 22 years. She has two boys who were aged about 13 and 16 at the time of divorce. She husband left her a note to say he was leaving. After the initial shock, she was relieved. … [Read more...]
Why Did You Stay In Your Marriage?
When you finally open up and tell friends and family the truth about your marriage, one reaction you may get is people asking, "Why did you stay in your marriage?" They might also add, " ... for so long?" particularly if you say your marriage has been troubled from the start or for many years. Even though Wendi had doubts about her marriage on her wedding day, her marriage … [Read more...]
Getting Married For The Wrong Reasons
The groom gets cold feet, the bride gets wedding day jitters and well-meaning friends and family members say the doubts and second-thoughts are just nerves. But sometimes it's more than nerves, sometimes those fears are well-founded and going ahead means getting married for the wrong reasons. Today, I'd like to introduce you to my next guest, Wendi Schuller. Wendi and her … [Read more...]
8 Divorce Cliches You Need To Be Prepared For
By Mikalee Byerman for DivorcedMoms.com Going public with your divorce is a major milestone. It's loaded with stress and anxiety and can result in hours of lost sleep. On hearing your news, many people will respond with one of these 8 divorce cliches you need to be prepared for. Knowing what to expect ahead of time gives you the opportunity to plan how you'll respond. You'll … [Read more...]