Regardless of how civil or amicable you want your divorce to be, disagreements are inevitable. Knowing how to calm anger in divorce could be your key to resolving these disagreements and staying out of the courtroom. When you're negotiating over the division of assets and how to parent together, and the hurt and pain are fresh and raw, it's hard to approach this simply as a … [Read more...]
How To Tell Your Spouse Is Lying To You
No one likes to think their spouse isn't telling the truth but if you're getting divorced or your marriage is in trouble, then the chances that your spouse isn't being totally honest increase and you need to know how to tell your spouse is lying to you. If you've always believed your spouse, how to do start to detect the lies? On the otherhand, if you're convinced now that … [Read more...]
Tired Of Feeling Resentful? Here’s What To Remember
Getting your life back after divorce can be hard. There are financial issues, co-parenting, and emotional roller-coasters to ride that can leave us feeling exhausted, wondering if we’ll ever move on and feel happy. Among these stressors, two of the most challenging obstacles to overcome when recovering from divorce will grab hold of even the most patient of … [Read more...]
How to Cope With Divorce And The Threat Of Suicide
The risk of suicide increases significantly with divorce. Knowing how to respond if you, your STBX or your child becomes suicidal is critical. How do you know when to take a suicide threat seriously? Should you put the divorce on hold or promise not to divorce? Is it your fault if your STBX ends their life? As a divorce coach, I worked with a few clients whose STBX has … [Read more...]
How Faith Can Help You Get Back On Track During Divorce
Often people think about divorce as something destructive and stressful. Seeing the plans that you’ve built with your beloved being shattered is terrible to experience. And it is also frightening to be alone, not knowing how to start over. Divorce can be compared to a metaphor of a shattered vase. As something destructive, it can also be the foundation to build something … [Read more...]