There's little disagreement that ending your marriage is one of the most difficult experiences and transitions in life so it's important to find the right divorce support for you. That's not easy because divorce can also be one of life's most isolating experiences. In the months leading up to going public about the decision, people often hide the truth about what is going on … [Read more...]
After Divorce, What Would Marie Kondo Say About Your Wedding Memorabilia?
After a divorce, it can be challenging to discard anything that reminded you of your marriage. If you wanted the divorce, it may feel healing to blow up or trash your wedding dress once the papers are filed. For others, especially those with children, you may decide to save some wedding memorabilia for their memories or special day. The next decisions you must make are what to … [Read more...]
Tired Of Getting Hurt? You Need New Boundaries!
Divorce is one of life's milestone events that causes many of us to examine our boundaries. You may even be learning about healthy boundaries for the first time. The changing nature of your relationship with your ex likely means it's time to reassess your boundaries with them. Dealing with family members and friends during divorce may also mean setting new expectations … [Read more...]
Taking Off Your Wedding Rings: When’s The Right Time?
The first thing to understand about removing your wedding rings during a divorce or separation is that there is no right time. What feels right is going to feel wrong to someone else. As you’ll learn through the divorce process, you have to decide what’s right for you. That said, everyone going through this emotional time will handle the wedding rings question … [Read more...]
Do You See Divorce As An Opportunity Or The End Of The World?
Do you see divorce as an opportunity or the end of the world? Divorce is always an opportunity but many people don't see it that way certainly when they first realize that it's likely and especially if they aren't the decision-maker. For the person who takes the lead on ending the marriage, they've concluded that life will be better outside the marriage. That doesn't mean … [Read more...]