Many couples, divorced and married have differing parenting styles. Trying to conform to a single style is a no-win battle and the resultant struggles will only harm your children. Accepting your ex the way they are may not be easy but it comes with benefits for all. My current guest, Suzy is a very hands-on parent which is in sharp contrast to her ex who is emotionally and … [Read more...]
The Single Parent Juggling Act: 5 Tips To Help You Manage
by Debbie Pincus MS LMHC There’s a famous quote about Ginger Rogers that says, “She did everything that Fred Astaire did, only backwards.” In some ways, being a single parent is similar, except you’re doing everything other parents do, only solo. It’s important to remember that children naturally fight to get what they want. To not be worn down and give in to your child’s … [Read more...]
Still Family After Divorce
A common fear is that divorce breaks up the family and yes, in some cases it definitely does. In other cases however it's more like a rearranging. That rearranging doesn't happen overnight. It takes time and the key is understanding that you are still a family. My present guest, Lois Tarter has been divorced now for over fifteen years. With her two adult children and her now … [Read more...]
3 Ways To Help Your Kids Adjust To Two Homes
By Adam When parents get divorced and one moves out, it's not only strange for your children; it's hard for them to go sleep in a new place that is but isn’t home. You may want to get rid of the pictures of your ex but having them around could help your kids. If you’re decorating a new house, you can choose what you want, but how will the new surroundings affect your child? … [Read more...]
From Lovers To Separated Parents
By Tara Eisenhard Divorce is not a continuation of marriage. This should go without saying, right? The fact is obvious for those couples who are able to part ways and never see each other again. But for couples with children, it becomes a little more complicated. Although the marriage ends, the connection continues. And this can cause some boundaries to blur. It’s not … [Read more...]