Going through a divorce is tough. You’re already dealing with the emotional fallout of separating from your loved one, and now you have to deal with an actual court hearing. If this prospect fills you with anxiety and dread, don't worry, you're not alone. Divorce hearings can be scary, especially because there is so much at stake. Not only are you headed into the … [Read more...]
Looking For Love After Divorce? Make These Resolutions Today!
If you’ve just gone through divorce, your New Year’s resolutions might look a little different than last year. Instead of improving your marriage or making more time for your spouse, you now have time to prioritize other things. This year, taking care of yourself should be first on the list. It’s time to put yourself first, take back your independence and appreciate your own … [Read more...]
Do You See Divorce As An Opportunity Or The End Of The World?
Do you see divorce as an opportunity or the end of the world? Divorce is always an opportunity but many people don't see it that way certainly when they first realize that it's likely and especially if they aren't the decision-maker. For the person who takes the lead on ending the marriage, they've concluded that life will be better outside the marriage. That doesn't mean … [Read more...]
Stressed About the Holidays? Here’s What to Do
Well, Thanksgiving is done and we’ve survived Black Friday but we’re not through the holiday abyss yet. This means we’ll most likely be dreading the stress, craziness, and visions of perfection shoved down our throats. For many of us, the holidays can feel dark, lonely, and stressful—especially if we are going through or recovering from divorce. Instead of looking forward … [Read more...]
There Is No Easy Or Quick Way To Heal From Divorce
We all need to heal from divorce. That applies just as much to the person who initiates the divorce as the person whose spouse makes the decision. The healing process stirs up a lot of feelings and hurts from our childhood and family of origin, our societal and cultural norms and expectations and, of course from the marriage itself and previous committed … [Read more...]
