http://sincemydivorce.com/good-decisions/ Celebrating the good from divorce Fri, 10 Sep 2010 13:10:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 http://sincemydivorce.com/good-decisions/comment-page-1/#comment-75 Lynda Hilburn Wed, 18 Feb 2009 03:47:28 +0000 http://sincemydivorce.com/?p=233#comment-75 Mandy: I also practice various forms of body awareness/body intelligence and I love the results. And, while I might not find myself in the same situation again (in whatever circumstance), I tend to move into the house next door with great regularity! LOL. Hugs, Lynda Mandy: I also practice various forms of body awareness/body intelligence and I love the results. And, while I might not find myself in the same situation again (in whatever circumstance), I tend to move into the house next door with great regularity! LOL.
Hugs, Lynda

]]> http://sincemydivorce.com/good-decisions/comment-page-1/#comment-74 Rosemary Carstens Wed, 18 Feb 2009 00:05:01 +0000 http://sincemydivorce.com/?p=233#comment-74 Melanie's post resonated with me, too. Some days, I just feel "off" and can't always tell what is bothering me. I just know that it's a day for me to slow down, not push so hard. On those days, one of the warning signs is that I seem clumsier than usual, dropping papers, spilling my food, putting my fingers in the wrong spot on the keyboard, and so on. I try to take more time with each task, make sure I get a good dinner with maybe a glass of wine, then get to bed early. Somehow, most of the time, the problem comes into focus over night and quite often a solution comes with it. Like you say, often it is a deadline that's putting the pressure on and figuring out a way to give yourself more time can make a huge difference! Switching from fast living to slow living has taken me awhile to learn--but it works! Melanie’s post resonated with me, too. Some days, I just feel “off” and can’t always tell what is bothering me. I just know that it’s a day for me to slow down, not push so hard. On those days, one of the warning signs is that I seem clumsier than usual, dropping papers, spilling my food, putting my fingers in the wrong spot on the keyboard, and so on. I try to take more time with each task, make sure I get a good dinner with maybe a glass of wine, then get to bed early. Somehow, most of the time, the problem comes into focus over night and quite often a solution comes with it. Like you say, often it is a deadline that’s putting the pressure on and figuring out a way to give yourself more time can make a huge difference! Switching from fast living to slow living has taken me awhile to learn–but it works!

]]> http://sincemydivorce.com/good-decisions/comment-page-1/#comment-70 Lara Robinson Mon, 16 Feb 2009 17:34:41 +0000 http://sincemydivorce.com/?p=233#comment-70 Isn't that the truth! Checking in with yourself to see where the stress lies, and then honoring that wisdom with a better choice. It's quite something to know that we can each treat ourselves like the trusted confidant that we really are. Isn’t that the truth! Checking in with yourself to see where the stress lies, and then honoring that wisdom with a better choice. It’s quite something to know that we can each treat ourselves like the trusted confidant that we really are.

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